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And it's just the cutest friggin' baby, too. What a sweet moment. :-) Read more.

Researchers at Bowling Green State University report that older women bring different values and expectations to online dating, compared to younger women. "They want to make a decision quickly and cut their losses, because they have learned life is too short for dating games," states Dr. Charlie Stelle. Read more.

It's not so much about the Republican/Democrat thing (which is a false dichotomy -- we want mostly the same things in life if you really think about it). This lady has courage, honesty and compassion. Watch her response and realize two things: 1) It's time for equality and 2) Republicans can have hearts.

California State University San Bernardino is conducting a survey titled "The Experience of Being Diagnosed with Cancer in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Patients." It's anonymous, it takes about 20 minutes to complete, and your efforts will help other LGBT folks to navigate the complex emotional and medical terrain of a cancer diagnosis. Please take a long coffee break to help out: complete the survey.

Yes, *that* Castro. She's Fidel's niece, and she's got a new blog covering LGBT politics and policy para las Cubanas (y los Cubanos ;-) pardon my espanol muy malo). Check it out here.

If you were here, would you feel the pressure of recreating famous "soldier homecoming" kisses? Would you feel the elation of all the women throughout time who wanted to do this but couldn't? Would you feel the weight of disapproval from everyone who thought this was a bad, sad, wrong direction for our military and society in general? Or would you just sweep up your girl who hadn't seen in a long time and given her a big kiss?

Well who's gonna say no to her? Really.

Join Arlington Gay & Lesbian Alliance on Sunday, November 6th at the gravesite of Leonard Matlovich at Congressional Cemetery in Washington DC for the LGBT Veterans' Memorial Service. All are welcome -- veterans, please come in uniform. Let us take the opportunity to salute the service of LGBT Americans. Details here.

Congratulations to the happy couple. :-) Country singer Chely Wright tweets gay wedding photos.

The more integrated we become, the less we depend upon the shelter of gay-specific businesses like bars and bookstores...or do we? Are we obligated to support longstanding traditions or do they only serve to keep us separate? What do you think? Share your thoughts on Twitter.

ABC News Primetime went to a Texas diner and set up a "What would you do?" scenario with two lesbian parents who are harassed by a nosy waitress (actually an actress). You might be surprised by the people who rise to defend the couple...helps to restore your faith in humanity.

Honestly, take a look: Couple happy to play part in Ireland's 'big step'. Haven't seen any news coverage of female couples, though. Any girls in Ireland ready to represent? You can always meet one here. :-)

Attention ladies...it's time to "Come Out for Health" during the Ninth Annual National LGBT Health Awareness Week, March 28 - April 1. Lesbians tend to be quite closeted when it comes to health care, and that needs to change if we want to get the professional, effective and compassionate treatment we deserve. You can do your part to improve things by participating in this year's National LGBT Health Awareness Week.

'Corrective rape', the vicious practice of raping lesbians to 'cure' their sexuality, is a crisis in South Africa. I don't know about you, but being violently forced to have sex with a man or group of men would not make me see things their way. Would it work for you? No? Then speak up, now, for women in South Africa (wasn't it a neat country during the World Cup? for shame, South Africa). Thanks to Avaaz for this action alert. Please click through now, won't you?

Chely Wright has struggled since coming out last spring. Her record sales have fallen, music industry friends have ditched her or refused to stand by her in public, and fans have bluntly informed her that they think she's going to hell. Chely hasn't withered under the fire, though. She has a new cd, documentary and book due out, and she shares the details in her Autostraddle interview. Included are several videos of her new songs -- and Tampa girlz, check out the VOA host with the 93.3 FLZ t-shirt.

In honor of the release of Black Swan, Associated Press film critic Christy Lemire lists her top five lesbian love scenes in mainstream films. Find a hot chick on GirlDates and have a hot movie night to review these scenes for yourselves.
Cruel Intentions
D.E.B.S.
Bound
Mulholland Drive
Wild Things

Just in time for the holidays, here's a poignant reminder of why you left in the first place. Best wacky homophobic line in recent memory: "Out of Satan's shadowy world of homosexuality, in a display of defiance against society, they come forth." Rawrrr!

Interesting post about a lesbian knitter and the consequences of coming out at knitting meetups.

Looking for a fun and easy first date? GirlDates is giving away two free passes to the supercool Tampa Bay History Center to the first person who tweets us @girldates.

Lovely brides, and the sweetest proposal story. Prepare for "awwwww..." Bridal Bliss: Love at First Sight - Essence.com

Maj. Margaret Witt was suspended in 2004 and subsequently discharged under the "don't ask, don't tell" policy after the Air Force learned she had been in a long-term relationship with a civilian woman.

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Lesbian Hooters Waitress From Illinois Joins 'America's Next Top Model'

David Mixner starts a lesbian power dustup on his blog with this informative post. The list is great, and several good also-rans are in the comments. Names to watch in the future, names to respect from the past.

Let's admit it -- we don't always take care of ourselves, and we're prone to different stresses than straight women. Maybe we feel like we can't be honest with our doctors, or maybe we're not being honest with ourselves. Whatever the reason, if we don't get regular checkups like our straight & childbearing sisters, we risk missing important warning signs. Check out these tips from Mayo Clinic and take a moment to assess your own health.

Articulate, elegant, funny, humble... and HOT.

Do we need three before it's official? Headline News' Jane Velez-Mitchell came out in October, then Meredith Baxter. Pink, Lindsay Lohan and Margaret Cho are all disqualified for one reason or another. So who are we missing? Or should we hold our breath and wait?

Female athlete of the 20th Century, multitalented trailblazer, Babe Didrikson Zaharias set an example that inspires you to reach higher and do your best, even when you are your only competition. Whether you are enjoying some summer golf and running the trails, or whether you are facing tough times like so many are these days, it's good to draw strength from those who have gone before. Look no further than the story of Babe Zaharias.

Wikipedia entry on Babe Zaharias
Subject: Babe And George Zaharias
from May 14, 1956 Sports Illustrated
Babe Zaharias Golf Course in Tampa
Babe Zaharias Doll - Tampa Bay History Center Museum Center

Insightful commentary by Jody May-Chang of PrideDEPOT.com. In the dailyness of life, we deal with multiple hassles that our straight friends don't. When we bring it up, it's not for pity, but for awareness. For change. And sometimes, just for venting. Ms. May-Chang tells it like it is.

It's TV dish for gays! Great way to burn that last 5 minutes before lunch. GayTVBlog.com.

Peanut butter and chocolate? A natural match. Gays and NASCAR? Not as unlikely as you might think, according to Southern Voice Atlanta. Check out Gaytona.com. Even the Urban Dictionary includes the term "NASbian". So perhaps Daytona really is a great place to meet hot chicks.

You're in the US. You found the girl of your dreams, but she's in the UK, or points beyond. If you're planning a future together, be aware that you might face immigration challenges. Here's a good place to learn about the issue and what you can do to help. ImmigrationEquality.org